Writing is such a gift. It is a gift to the writer, and it’s a gift to the reader. I love to offer up my writing to others. I enjoy being able to encourage other moms and other bloggers. I firmly believe, and I have been told, God has given me the gift of encouragement.
The one thing that I noticed, however, that I have lacked, is using this great gift right inside my own home, amongst my own family. I tend to be a better writer then speaker. I convey things better on paper (virtual or otherwise), then I do with my mouth, typically. Writing also helps me stay focused, which is why I keep a prayer journal.
But, in what ways could we use our writing to bless our children?
Prayer Journal
I have written before on how I keep a prayer journal for each child, that I try to write in each one weekly. The purpose of this is to show our children the power and glory of God in their own lives as they were growing up. Most likely, this would be a gift for them once they are older—how about a wedding gift? This would be a priceless keepsake and legacy indeed.
Letters Journal
Why not have a journal for each child that mother and child write back and forth in? Did you ever do that in high school? You know, you keep a notebook between just two or three friends that you would pass around throughout the school day, writing letters in it to each other? OK, well, maybe I’m the only strange one who did that! But it’s also a nice keep sake and a way to consistently encourage your child at the end of the day or week.
Personal Journal
Keep a personal journal on the life of your child. Now, if you have a lot of children, this would be quite a commitment of time. Obviously that’s not a bad thing! But you can certainly consider other options if you have a lot of children. But if you have one or two children, keeping a journal that records major milestones and beautiful moments in their life would be a prized gift for them as adults.
Encouraging Cards
Leave encouraging cards for your children spontaneously, in different places. Their pajama drawer. Their lunch bag. At their place on the breakfast table so they find it in the morning. It doesn’t have to be super long, but a few encouraging words can go a long way. Get some cute, blank cards and put them to use!
Special Occasion Letters
Use special occasions like birthdays, Valentine’s Day, Easter, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Thanksgiving, and Christmas to write specific letters to your children.
Write a birthday letter about how much they’ve grown over the last year, in their spiritual walk, in maturity, maybe draw out some key moments that you can touch on. On Mother’s Day you can write a letter about how happy you are to be their mother and what you have learned growing as a mom, something specific your child has taught you over the last year.
Even Father’s Day can be used to write to your child and completely brag on their daddy–what a wonderful father he is and simply talk him up as a daddy. What a gift to your children to see you loving their daddy in this way.
Be intentional about setting time aside to write for you children. You don’t need to do all of these ideas!! Start with one and branch out from there if you feel lead. But do share your writing with your children.
Our children will one day see the time we devoted our love for writing to bless them. It will be come a tradition that maybe they will pass down to their own children. It will become a memory as they grow old, how their mommy loved them through her writing. It will become a treasured keepsake.
Writing is a gift that keeps on giving. It really is. It’s one of the best ways to capture life in the moment so it is not lost. Capture pieces of your children’s childhood through your writing for them.
Joy in Christ,
Kristina Tanner says
March 25, 2013 at 9:18 amI liked this, Christin. When my kiddies go to school I try to make it a point to include a handwritten note in their lunch box. Just last week my five year old son told me, “I’m going to hang this on my wall, mom.” It was nothing spectacular, just another one of my “normal” notes to him.
Christin says
March 25, 2013 at 10:31 amThat’s awesome Kristina. 🙂
Deborah Boutwell says
March 25, 2013 at 9:25 amSome other ways to leave them notes is through recordings. I’ve started doing some videos and podcasts for them. One day they will love to hear your voice again. I was thinking of doing my Bible reading through a podcast so that my future grandkids could have a recording of me reading the Bible to them. By putting them online, they will always be available. I’ve made a list of all my on-line posting accounts (blog, youtube) with passwords so that my kids will have access to them when I’m in Glory. Just another way to leave a legacy.
Christin says
March 25, 2013 at 10:31 amThis is true!! What great ideas, Deborah! Thank you for sharing! 🙂
Ramona says
March 25, 2013 at 10:23 amLove these ideas. Thank you!!!
Christin says
March 25, 2013 at 10:31 amSo welcome!! I hope you’ll choose one! 🙂
Kim Hall says
March 25, 2013 at 4:35 pmAll great suggestions, Christin! Of all the things we’ve kept over the years, it has been the handwritten missives back and forth. We had started a letters journal for each girl, only we called them Pillow Journals because we would tuck them under each other’s pillow when we had finished writing in them. My one word of advice to moms with younger children is to keep it up even if you don’t feel like it. Even once a month is better than not at all, or a sentence or two to keep the conversation going. It is my regret we were not good about keeping these up.
soulstops says
March 25, 2013 at 11:41 pmwhat great ideas, Christin…Thank you 🙂
Joyce (and Norm) says
March 26, 2013 at 6:53 pmMy girls and I have a notebook where we write back to each other…well, the 3yo just draws pictures back to me, but she loves having the notes read to her. 🙂
Sheila Edeliant says
April 2, 2013 at 4:17 pmI agree — lots of neat ideas, Christin. I try to write each of my children a special letter each year on their birthdays and at Christmas. We have often had a family “mail service” going, writing little notes back and forth, too. I really like your idea of the journal, though. I would like to get those started. I think my children would really like that. Perhaps we will call them “Pillow Journals,” as Kim Hall suggested. I like the sound of that. 🙂