When did love become so hard?
For Jeff and Brittany, loving became hard as soon as they said, “I do” and continued that way for a solid six years of marriage. One day they picked up The Love Dare, and day by day, dare by dare, they began to understand what it meant to truly love each other the way God intended.
(Check out their story at the bottom of this post)
Showing Christ’s love to a spouse, a child, a friend, a neighbor, an acquaintance, a stranger, is not always easy. More often than not, it’s hard. Our flawed human nature defaults to selfishness and contentedness, often resulting in a lack of effort to love, or even a failure to acknowledge someone else’s need for love.
Yet, Jesus calls us to love. And the purpose in loving is not just to be nice, but so that others will know that we are His.
I give you a new command: Love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another. By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.
-John 13:34-35
In preparation for an Allume focusing on hospitality (can you really have hospitality without love?), we’re daring you to love big. This doesn’t have to be about marriage or parenting—it can be, but it can also be about loving your neighbors, your enemies, your coworkers, your in-laws, etc.
We want you to dare to love big between now and Allume, and then we want you to share your experience with us and the Allume community at Open Mic Night!
To get your wheels turning, we’re giving away copies of The Love Dare OR The Love Dare for Parents to 10 lucky winners. Just comment below with which title you’d like a copy of, and if you’re a winner we’ll get yours in the mail.
And if you don’t win, you have the chance to pick up a book at the conference!
Come visit us at The Love Dare booth to nab a spot for Open Mic Night. We can’t wait to see you lovely ladies at Allume and to hear your stories of loving BIG!
Because He first loved us,
To watch this video on Youtube, click here: The Love Dare
The Love Dare, a #1 New York Times bestseller from B&H Publishing that has sold five million copies, is a 40-day challenge for husbands and wives to understand and practice unconditional love. In 2013, the authors of The Love Dare penned The Love Dare for Parents, a 40-day journey of “dares” challenging one or both parents to understand, practice and communicate Christ-like love to their children. The Love Dare books challenge you to think differently—they’re about learning and daring to live a life filled with loving relationships.
Come join the Love Dare movement on Facebook and Twitter (@lovedarebook)!
kasmith03 says
July 8, 2014 at 6:55 amOh I would love a copy of the Love Dare!! Kristin Smith
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:40 pmYay you won!! Please send me your mailing address and title of choice to christin at allume dot com and we’ll get that sent out ASAP!
kasmith03 says
September 18, 2014 at 6:14 amOh thank you – just sent you and email! 🙂
Nickolee Roberts says
July 8, 2014 at 7:41 amWe have the Love Dare, so I’d love a copy of the Parents version!! Love how BIG He has Loved us so that we can extend that to others!!
Lauren DeVries says
July 8, 2014 at 9:15 amOh boy, how to choose? I don’t have either… Love Dare to start would be fabulous! Thanks for this giveaway and challenge!
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:33 pmYay Lauren, you’re a winner! Email me your mailing address and book of choice to christin at allume dot com and we’ll get that sent out ASAP!
Lauren DeVries says
September 17, 2014 at 10:43 pmNuh uh! Thanks! I’m so excited! Will email shortly…
MomtoJADE says
July 8, 2014 at 9:44 amHearing that hospitality is a focus of Allume dovetails beautifully with my goals for the next six months. The Lord has impressed that on me to help my kids (& myself!) to grow in this area. I am so stinking excited in October & I hope to win the parent’s edition of Love Dare.
http://www.JADEintheParke.com
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:38 pmYou won!! Please email me your mailing address and title of choice to christin at allume dot com and we’ll get that sent to you! Congratulations!
Kim Hyland says
July 8, 2014 at 1:53 pmThe Love Dare for Parents sounds great!
Charissa says
July 8, 2014 at 1:58 pmI’d like The Love Dare. Thanks!
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:34 pmYay! You’re a winner! Please email me your mailing address and book of choice to christin at allume dot com and we’ll get that sent out ASAP! 🙂
Charissa says
September 18, 2014 at 2:33 pmJust emailed you my address! Thanks!!!
Beth says
July 8, 2014 at 4:40 pmI am actually currently blogging my way through The Love Dare while my husband is deployed and it has had such on impact on growing our love for one another even while apart. I’m a big fan of the book! I wish I was able to attend Allume . . . I’d be at that booth. Blessings.
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:36 pmYay Beth, you won! Please send me your mailing address and book of choice to christin at allume dot com and we’ll get that sent out ASAP. Thanks!
Beth says
September 18, 2014 at 10:05 amThank you so much!! Email coming your way. 🙂
Lisha Epperson says
July 8, 2014 at 7:41 pmI’d like to read The Love Dare for Parents…sounds like just the thing for the tween/teen years.
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:32 pmYay! You’re a winner!! Email your mailing address to me at christin @ allume dot com to receive your prize!! Congrats!
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:33 pmDon’t forget, include what book you’d like! 🙂
vernette says
July 9, 2014 at 10:58 amI’d love a copy of The Love Dare please!
LeeAnn Taylor says
July 9, 2014 at 12:34 pmI’d love a copy of The Love Dare. Thanks for the opportunity to win and can’t wait to see you at Allume!
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:39 pmYou won a copy!! Please email me your mailing address and title of choice to christin at allume dot com and we’ll get that sent out!
LeeAnn Taylor says
September 17, 2014 at 11:50 pmHow exciting! Just sent you an email to follow up.
Alison Storm says
July 9, 2014 at 1:11 pmWould love to win The Love Dare! This is such a great concept and challenge for us all!
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:36 pmYay Alison you won! Please email me your title of choice and mailing address at christin at allume dot com and we’ll get that sent out!
Courtney says
July 14, 2014 at 2:24 pmI love the Love Dare concept, and would be thankful to receive either copy! I am a parent of a 12 month old so the parent version would be great, but would also enjoy “The Love Dare” — thank you!
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:37 pmYou won!! Send me your mailing address and title of choice to christin at allume dot com and we’ll get that sent out! Congrat’s!
Courtney says
September 18, 2014 at 10:10 amI sent you my address last night!!!! so excited! thank you 🙂 🙂
Julie Wilson says
July 16, 2014 at 10:51 amIf this is still open, I would love a copy of The Love Dare for Parents! I’m on a journey of learning to love my kids as Jesus does!!!
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:32 pmYay Julie! You’re a winner!! Email me your mailing address to christin at allume dot com and we’ll get that sent out ASAP!
Christin says
September 17, 2014 at 10:34 pmAlso, include what book you’d like! 🙂