The Allume conference is just 78 days away. Do you have your ticket yet? If not, you will have to stalk the twitter stream because they are all sold out!! Sorry! Don’t wait so long next year. 🙂
Maybe you’ve never been to a conference like this before and you are a bit afraid you won’t fit in. I promise – you WILL fit in. AND…you won’t be the only person feeling that way. You will find that the community is very welcoming.
So breath deeply and RELAX.
The first time I attended Allume was in 2011 when it was known as the Relevant Conference. I knew NO. ONE. I made the drive to Harrisburg which is less than 3 hours from my home, checked into the hotel and went to my room.
And I wondered WHAT. HAVE. I. DONE?
I didn’t know anyone.
I hadn’t been blogging long.
I certainly didn’t have a tribe or a following or a platform or anything else that many people talked about in the online community. I still don’t have these things. Well, if I do, then I don’t know it. But I know that attending Allume was incredibly beneficial to my writing, my blogging, and my relationship with the Lord.
I want to share with you a few of the things I did BEFORE the conference that helped me.
· I studied the Allume website. I perused the website often, checking for updates, changes, etc. I learned about the speakers. I checked out their websites and blogs.
· I printed the agenda and decided which sessions most interested me and which ones I thought would be most beneficial. See the 2013 agenda here.
· I prayed. Seriously I did. I was nervous. Even though I am a confident person, I was really nervous.
Now for some DOs and a DON’T…
· Do wear comfortable clothes. And be prepared to layer your clothing. Conference rooms are often cool because the speakers are warm. So have a jacket, sweater or shawl that you can throw on just in case.
· Don’t over pack. The first year I was away from home three nights and took enough clothes for more than one outfit a day. My thought was I would change for the evening. I didn’t. I was too busy learning, socializing and connecting. Last year I took one outfit for each day, with an extra couple of shirts. This year I am flying and I can’t afford to over pack!
· Do leave room in your suitcase to take home your swag bag goodies. And if this year is like the last two years, then there will be LOTS of goodies. There will be lots of books and books are heavy. So keep that in mind when you pack. If you are flying, then the airline will charge you for an overweight bag.
· Do have business cards. At a minimum have your name, blog name and web address and your e-mail on the card. I have my picture on my card because I think it helps people remember me. Some people choose to put their telephone number and address on their card. That is a personal preference. You can find deals all over the internet for business cards or make them yourself. Just have some.
· Do have a notebook or some method for taking notes.
· Do exchange cell numbers (before the conference) with bloggers you want to connect with in person. It can be a bit overwhelming with the number of people attending and if you don’t have a method to connect, then you might miss them.
· DO…and this is a BIG DO…make use of the prayer room. It is a quiet refuge in the midst of the noise and goodness known as Allume. It is a quiet place where you can meet the Lord. Or pray with a friend. I have found it to be a sacred and holy place.
· DO…check out this post by my friend, Trina. I repeat a couple of her do’s and don’t’s, but she has some other great ideas and thoughts!
The biggest and probably the most important…open your heart and mind.
Be prepared to be blessed by the speakers, by the connections and by the Lord.
Kim Hall says
August 8, 2013 at 7:46 amI hadn’t thought of sharing phone numbers with folks to enable a meet-up. Thanks for the reminder to leave room for swag. I just don’t tend to think about that, and then get caught because my suitcase is already full!
Just FYI-when I followed the link to buy a ticket, the site said “Sold out”. Thankfully, I have mine. I had heard rumors there were going to be more tickets available. Is that true? I’ve seen quite a few women looking for tickets still, especially following that wild ride of a Twitter party!
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 10:04 amI composed the post before the tickets sold out and was out of town w/limited internet access last week. The conference is sold out and anyone wanting a ticket will need to check the twitter stream to see if anyone has one for sale.
As for swag…I didn’t even know about such things the first year I went. I was glad I was driving!!
Aprille says
August 8, 2013 at 8:41 amThis is so encouraging for the newbies!!!
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 10:02 amI’m so glad.
Amy Elgin says
August 8, 2013 at 9:03 amI so appreciated this, because I’m that girl! The newbie. Have you been in my brain? Thanks, this was extremely helpful to me!
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 10:02 amAmy, I am glad you found it helpful. And the only brain I have been in is my own…and I remembered what it was like being new.
christie elkins. says
August 8, 2013 at 9:28 amThis is SUCH a practical post! Exchanging cell numbers is brilliant–I did not do that last year and regret it. And I definitely overpacked last year too!
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 10:02 amOver packing is so easy to do!
melanieamoore says
August 8, 2013 at 10:07 amThank you, Mary! This is such a great post!!! Hope we can meet up again this year 🙂
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 10:01 amI hope we can meet up too, Melanie! And CONGRATS on winning the ticket at the twitter party!
Gretchen Louise says
August 8, 2013 at 10:08 amGreat points, Mary! Thanks for this practical post.
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 10:00 amThanks, Gretchen!
Amy Tilson says
August 8, 2013 at 10:27 amGood stuff, especially exchanging cell numbers beforehand! You truly don’t have time to change clothes. Maybe if you wear the same thing all three days more people will recognize you the second time you meet! Just a thought. (JK people) 🙂
Missindeedy says
August 8, 2013 at 5:58 pmAnd that, Amy, is why we love you. Such great ideas! 😉
Amy Tilson says
August 9, 2013 at 4:12 pmHey, I got Jess White to wear her pink hat last year so I’d recognize her from her avitar. 🙂
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 10:00 amthat is funny
Nancy Smith says
August 8, 2013 at 6:06 pmI need a like button for this one. and, although I may not make it this year… I know you all will be blessed to your toes and back!
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 10:00 amWearing the same thing all weekend…since some people don’t sleep, that would work well for them. I, on the other hand, do have sleep some. 🙂
Lara Sadowski says
August 8, 2013 at 11:07 amWhat a great post – thanks so much, Mary! If my husband were reading this post right now, he would “high-five” you regarding my overpacking. Because I do it. A. Lot. 🙂 I cannot wait for Allume! And before this October, I will exchange cell numbers – great idea!
Have a blessed day, ladies!
Lara <
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 9:59 amYou are welcome, Lara!!
Lara Sadowski says
August 19, 2013 at 11:10 am:-)!! Thanks again, Mary.
Lovely Messes says
August 8, 2013 at 11:34 amThanks for the great tips!! I’m driving so it would be so easy to overpack, I’ll keep that in mind!
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 9:58 amI have driven every year I have gone and overpacked the first year, but not the second. When I drove I did take a cooler with some snacks and it was fun to go back to my room at night with some friends and chill out.
Nancy Smith says
August 8, 2013 at 11:50 amDon’t Overpack!!!! Repeating what Mary said!!!
when we started traveling, my husband and i made a point to only use one bag- we backpacked everywhere- if it didn’t fit in the backpack we didn’t take it. I learned to pare down over the years-and packed with either expanding the backpack in mind for souvenirs or took a collapsable zip up bag slipped into the pack. Last year I had a two compartment rolling duffel I used. the bottom was empty when I got there and full when I came home. Ladies, may you be blessed by your experience- It will be a great one!
Brianna Wasson says
August 8, 2013 at 1:30 pmThanks for the tips. This week God gave me some new friends already in the form of three roommates I didn’t know He’d planned for me. It’s had me thinking more about the conference and getting so, so excited. And also feeling that grumbly nervous in my belly thing start to grow. So thanks for this. Truly.
Guest says
August 8, 2013 at 4:12 pmAnd one Don’t….Don’t look at yourself in the mirror in 79 days, and wish you had purchased a ticket! I’m looking forward to this!
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 9:56 amAmen!
Diane Bailey says
August 8, 2013 at 4:14 pmAnd, don’t look at yourself in 79 days and wish you had gone…just come on and go with us!
Great advice Mary. I can’t wait to see you!
Missindeedy says
August 8, 2013 at 5:57 pmMary, thank you for reminding us that we will NOT feel alone. I think being surrounded by your peeps, even ones you haven’t met yet, is the most exciting part about attending the Allume conference to me!
Mary Bonner says
August 10, 2013 at 9:55 amThe Allume community is so welcoming that you really are surrounded by your peeps! Looking forward to seeing you there.