I bought trouser jeans because a blogger said they were cool. I figured if I was going to be in a conference full of bloggers that I read, but actually did not know, I needed to look the part. And here I was, in the Old Navy dressing room, buying a pair of pants that I did not understand because a blogger blogged it.
I also bought a blazer. A navy blue blazer.
Because I had a finished book proposal. And I figured that if I was going to sign up for important adult meetings, I should wear a blazer. It was time to talk about My Book and to see who would want to publish it and how quickly they would want to give me money for it and by the way,
could I get that in $20s so I can fill a bathtub with cash? Thanks.
I was nervous. But I was confident. All joking aside, I felt like God has given me some words to share with teenaged girls and my trouser jeans and blazer were going to convince the publishing people of that as well.
I’ll get right to it: I didn’t get a book deal at that conference, though I will say that I looked sharp in that blazer and minimally sequined top. But I got a lot of other things that made the weekend beyond worth it, in time and money. Let me make a list for you.
1. A Twitter handle. Yes, at that conference, @annieblogs was born.
2. I got to meet some bloggers/writers that were very influential in my writing life.
3. Friends. I didn’t let myself scamper away to my hotel room between sessions (even though I wanted to because I was a scared little puppy) and my life, for the last five years, has been all the better because of the women that I met that weekend.
4. Inspiration. I still look over those notes, from that first conference. I remember the things I was taught- from the importance of having a solid brand across platforms to the importance of having a solid foundation of truth under you.
Five years later, and a handful of conferences to boot, my book Perfectly Unique is a real hold- in-your-hand book. Thanks to Zondervan Publishers, I have gotten to share the words that God put on my heart those years ago with lots of women. And I get to speak next weekend at Allume about the power of writing in the season you are living.
So for you, my bloggy friend, I say keep going, don’t quit. Buy the skinny jeans and get your business cards ready. Bring your book proposal or your next great idea or your brainstormed plans. This may be the weekend that God changes everything or this may be the weekend that sets you up for the next big thing. Or, this may be the weekend that you meet a lifelong friend.
And to make it a bit easier on you, I’ll start.
Hi. I’m Annie. I’m glad we’re about to be friends.
Annie F. Downs is a writer, teacher, speaker, and blogger based in Nashville, Tennessee. Flawed but funny, she seeks to highlight the everyday goodness of a real and present God. Along with her blog, AnnieBlogs.com, she has written for various print and Internet outlets, including Susie Magazine and monthly contributions to www.incourage.me, a women’s website run through Dayspring. By weaving together personal stories, humor, and Scripture, she invites the reader to experience a fulfilled life with a living God who loves deeply. Annie is a huge fan of the Internet, singer/songwriters, waffles with peanut butter, and sports of all kinds. Visit AnnieDowns.com or her Facebook page to find out more.
Amanda says
October 19, 2012 at 1:56 amHi Annie! I’m Amanda. (And at great risk of feeling like a complete dweeb, I confess you are at the top of my list of people I would really like to meet at this conference. You constantly bring a smile–and occasionally some tears–to my face through your writing. Looking forward! :))
Anonymous says
October 19, 2012 at 10:28 amYou are SO not a dweeb, Amanda! I can’t wait to meet you.
Mary Bonner says
October 19, 2012 at 7:14 amThis: “the power of writing in the season you are living.” speaks to me. I know that is what I am supposed to be doing, but haven’t quite got it figured out yet. I’ll be looking forward to what you have to say. And by the way, I think skinny jeans are evil, so I’ll just wear my regular jeans! 🙂
Anonymous says
October 19, 2012 at 10:28 amRegular jeans are welcome, Mary. 🙂 Looking forward to sharing my thoughts on how to write wisely as you are living through a season- would be grateful for your prayers!
Teresa says
October 19, 2012 at 8:47 amHI Annie, I am Teresa and this will be my first blogging conference. I am a scared puppy as well. But I am truly excited. Oh, and I agree with Mary Bonner, skinny jeans are evil.
Anonymous says
October 19, 2012 at 10:23 amYay for you being brave and coming to Allume! You’re really going to love it.
Elisa Pulliam says
October 19, 2012 at 8:48 amNice to meet you Annie! And thanks for sharing your story. So perfectly timed!
Anonymous says
October 19, 2012 at 10:22 amThanks, Elisa! Look forward to seeing you next weekend! 🙂
Gina Smith says
October 19, 2012 at 10:43 amHope to meet you! I’ll be the old lady in skinny jeans and a RED blazer! ( :
http://www.keepinitrealgina.com
Anonymous says
October 19, 2012 at 11:12 amI’ll look for you, Gina. 🙂
Sarah Caldwell says
October 19, 2012 at 10:49 amI love this post Annie! 🙂 You are one of the writers I am most looking forward to meeting! Your blog has inspired me, and I’m quite excited to read your book. I’m an actor, and a naturally extroverted person when it comes to that artistic world, but writing has always been a quiet passion, a safe place with my journal – until the relaunch of my blog about a year ago…so this conference actually has me a little nervous, being that I’ve never met any of these bloggers in real life. I can’t wait to hear your session, and say hello! Thanks again for your encouraging words!
Anonymous says
October 19, 2012 at 11:13 amSarah! I can’t wait to meet you, too. You know, I think acting and writing require very similar skill sets, really- you must be able to entertain and educate and move the audience. So you’re a natural I bet!
Crystal says
October 19, 2012 at 11:10 amLove this! Thanks for sharing…so did your book deal come out of a conference contact? Or something completely different? Just curious.
Anonymous says
October 19, 2012 at 11:16 amMine didn’t, Crystal. But I know a few different folks who that is exactly where the deal came from. I think meeting with publishers and agents is a priceless opportunity at conferences like this because it gets your name out there and those folks can help you refine your work so that it is exactly what publishers are looking for.
Trina Holden says
October 19, 2012 at 3:30 pmHi, Annie, I’m Trina! 😉 I just loved this post. You have such a warm, approachable writing style. Just draws me in whenever I read your words. See you soon!
Christa Sterken says
October 19, 2012 at 4:03 pmHi Annie, nice to meet you! This is great post, loved the transparency
Andrea from Martha Street says
October 19, 2012 at 8:33 pmHi Annie! Hope to hear more from you at Allume – all us newbies will enjoy the friendship and encouragement you offer. Thanks for writing!
Wendy says
October 19, 2012 at 10:05 pmAnnie, you’ve made me feel so encouraged about not only attending the conference but also my wardrobe while I’m there. 😉
Annie | annieathome.com says
October 20, 2012 at 1:48 amSo, so happy to meet you in person, Annie!
Nellie says
October 21, 2012 at 3:53 pmHey Annie! I’m Nellie! Your post was exactly what I need to hear as I begin my new journey. I will be attending my first Allume Conference which is also my first ever writing conference. God has certainly spoken through you directly to my heart. Can’t wait to meet you! Praying over you during this conference.
Anonymous says
October 21, 2012 at 8:23 pmWhat a warm introduction. I’m looking forward to meeting and hearing you!! 🙂