I’m one of those people with a hyperactive conscience. Someone can look at me funny and I’ll say sorry. Therefore, I can go a little nutty trying to evaluate the motives of my heart in terms of writing. Yes, Jesus is the most important relationship in my life, followed by my husband and three beautiful children. But, writing is my calling. I’m finally able to settle into it, like a comfortable couch, finally able to embrace it.
Sometimes the Enemy of our souls would like to whisper condemnation in our ears with words like, “How do you know you’re doing this for Jesus? You’re just after the fame and glory.” And being humans, we listen to that voice, trying desperately to sift through it. For hyperactive conscience lady, that means I sift and resift, worrying I’m not truly living with eternal perspective.
I wished I realized sooner that all my wrestling about whether my writing motives were pure or not should have been left at the feet of Jesus. I’ve struggled with wondering if I loved writing too much. Would the Lord ask me to lay it down?
And one day, I had an amazing talk with a writer friend. She struggled with that very fear. She said, “I spent many days and weeks pouring through the Bible, seeking the Lord. I realized God brought all the men and women of faith on a journey and that He used every circumstance to culminate their ministry. He never told Moses, ‘OK, stop leading the people. You love it too much.’ Or to Joseph, ‘Yeah, I brought you through this time of desolation to a place of prominence. I’d like you to step down.'”
My friend continued, “If someone took out the writer part of my heart, part of my heart would be empty. I am a writer. It’s how God made me. He created my life and pointed me in this direction to serve Him as I write.”
Her words brought freedom. We can spend undo energy fretting about our motives, bearing a heavy yoke. Jesus beckons us to lay down our wrestling, to trust that the Spirit within us will check us if we are selfishly ambitious, and to write with vigor for His glory.
This world NEEDS your redemptive words. If you struggle constantly with whether your motives are correct, you’ll never release those words. So, relax. Trust the Spirit and write.
Mary Bonner says
August 1, 2012 at 7:20 amThis is really enlightening, Mary. The interesting thing is I am such a small blogger that I wonder if anyone ever reads my writing, yet I feel CALLED to write. Every time that I think about stopping, I get confirmation that I am SUPPOSED to write. Now I struggle with figuring out what, how often, when…etc.
Thanks so much for the encouraging words.
Mary
http://memyselfandmercy.blogspot.com/
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 8:50 amMary, I like your first name. 🙂 Yes, if God calls, then do it. With joy. 🙂
Veronicaherzing says
August 1, 2012 at 7:31 amOH MY WORD how I needed to hear this!!! Thank you thank you thank you!!! I am not a great writer but I do love to write and I struggled with the very same thing!!! Praising Jesus for this message 🙂
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 8:50 amI’m so glad this message brought peace and joy!
Mandy says
August 1, 2012 at 8:21 amOh, Mary…I have quite the scrupulous conscience. Thanks so much for these words!
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 8:49 amSo be set freeeeeee Mandy!
Heidi Kreider says
August 1, 2012 at 8:54 amthanks Mary! I needed this!
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 9:33 amI’m glad it blessed, Heidi.
Bobbie Cole says
August 1, 2012 at 8:57 amGreat piece, Mary. Totally agree with your friend’s advice.
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 9:33 amThanks Bobbie!
Stacey says
August 1, 2012 at 9:04 amNeeded this today after yesterday. Thank you.
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 9:33 amMay yesterday fade beautifully into today. And may you have tons of joy now.
Kim Hall says
August 1, 2012 at 9:05 amWonderful words directed right at my heart today. Thanks for your wisdom.
I find myself all too often getting ahead of God’s plans, as I race after the glory in the growing of rankings and followers. He regularly reminds me of what is truly important here. At that soft reprimand, I settle back into that oh so comfortable place, where his words just flow through me and out onto the page like the refreshing waters of a mountain spring bubbling joyfully to the surface.
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 9:33 amYou sound like you have a healthy perspective, Kim.
Shannon Milholland says
August 1, 2012 at 9:11 amI needed to hear this today, Mary. I question my calling almost daily because I want to measure the voracity of it on “big” results. Then I question my hearts because I wonder why I want to see “big” results. There is freedom in trusting our calling but bigger freedom in trusting the One who called.
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 9:32 amYes, yes, yes. And big results (fruitfulness) is actually commended in Scripture. 😉
Lindsey Carlson says
August 1, 2012 at 9:26 amBINGO!
Couldn’t we apply this to every area of life?
“Maybe I shouldn’t serve my friend, I might want her approval.” “Maybe I shouldn’t share the gospel with this unbeliever, I might be seeking to convert for my own glory.” “Maybe I shouldn’t go to work this morning, I might say something hurtful to someone.”
I struggle with this exact problem too, but stop at the failure. Thank you for encouraging me to push past the sinfulness that will always be present in one capacity or another, to fling wide the gates of His glory!
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 9:32 amWell said, Lindsey!
Elisa Pulliam says
August 1, 2012 at 10:00 amGreat words of wisdom. Thanks for sharing!
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 10:47 amMy pleasure.
Deborah Beddoe says
August 1, 2012 at 10:10 amThank you, Mary. I might need to read this every day.
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 10:47 amFeel free!
Amy says
August 1, 2012 at 11:00 amThank you for sharing. Just what I needed to hear.
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 11:10 amSo glad, Amy.
Michele-Lyn says
August 1, 2012 at 11:16 amOh, finding you here, too! What a blessing! And these words speak directly to my heart. I am just beginning to embrace that I am a writer. Seriously, just this month. Although, the journey there has been much longer. Now, I am beginning to think of writing, not as something I have chosen for myself, but something God has called me to. In obedience, I answer the call, work hard, and trust God for the rest.
Thanks for sharing 🙂
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 11:18 amSo glad to hear you’ve sensed God’s prodding. Write like the wind!
Kara @ The Chuppies says
August 1, 2012 at 12:20 pmThis is excellent Mary… thank you.
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 1:04 pmyou’re welcome!
Mindy @ New Equus says
August 1, 2012 at 12:52 pmTruer words were never written! 🙂
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 3:12 pmGlad the post blessed, Mindy.
Amanda Friddle says
August 1, 2012 at 1:40 pmI’ve struggled with this too, and stumbled across this: http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2012/07/17/the-fight-for-glory/ . I love the way John Piper put it “If the fight for my affection was going to be everywhere, I decided to
fight in the place I loved. I love to write. I don’t know why, but I
love it. So I am going to fight this war here.”
So yeah, I with you, I want to trust the Spirit with in me and write “with vigor for His glory”
Great thoughts!
Amanda @ http://the-cadence.com
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 3:12 pmGreat Piper quote! Love that!
Meredith says
August 1, 2012 at 2:59 pmThis is awesome. So great.
Thank you for this– I have had the same thoughts.
Mary DeMuth says
August 1, 2012 at 3:11 pmYou are not alone!
Caris Adel says
August 1, 2012 at 3:25 pm”
‘OK, stop leading the people. You love it too much.’” Ha! That is awesome. What a great post, very encouraging. Thanks!
womenlivingwell says
August 1, 2012 at 10:21 pmSuch a powerful post Mary – thank you for this!
Courtney
Diana Denis says
August 2, 2012 at 1:04 am“I am a writer. It’s how God made me. He created my life and pointed me in this direction to serve Him as I write.” I may have to put this on my refrigerator and on my desk. Thank you!
Tammy Helfrich says
August 2, 2012 at 1:45 pmWhat a great post. Thanks for this, Mary!
Lorretta Stembridge says
August 5, 2012 at 4:47 pmGuess what Mary? God did it again. He used you and your gift and your willingness to put it out here like it is, to be the medicine for my “gotta-write-this-down-or-oh-my-goodness-I’m-going-to-explode!” little heart. I am a writer and I’ve hidden this little light o’mine under a bushel for way too long. God did this in us…it’s His to use until He pulls the plug. And so my prayer for you and for me and for anyone else struggling in these ways is “Soli Deo Gloria” …burn us up!
Lorretta
dancingonthedash@wordpress.com