I’m an author of a lot of books and a lot of blogs—thirty-five and 3,000+ respectfully! I write a lot. I plot a lot, but one of my biggest weaknesses is in taking time to consider how to fuel my soul. There’s a lot going out, and if I’m not careful I get drained.
Ways I fuel my writing day:
- Reading God’s Word
- Writing a prayer in my journal
- Reading a devotional book
- Reading inspiring blogs
- Chasing my kids around
- Feeding my visual senses at Pinterest
- Listening to my favorite songs via Spotify
- Reading People.com (okay, mostly looking at the new babies)
- Doing a craft with my kids
- Reading a chapter of a novel
- Chatting with a friend
- Looking through stock photos and playing with PicMonkey
I used to think of these things as procrastination or obstacles, but I’ve found that when I give myself time to listen to words, to see lovely images, and to laugh and play, I’m filling up the creative fuel that allows the words to flow.
I’ve also discovered it’s important to brainstorm big ideas. Yes, writing a shopping list is planning, but at least every few weeks I like to jot down notes about “big-picture dreams.”
A few things that made it from ideas to reality:
- Taking our teens on a mission trip (turned into three trips in three years)
- Adopting a baby (we’ve since adopted one, with two more adoptions in the works)
- Write a book with a business guru (Ken Blanchard and I have one that just released: Lead Your Family Like Jesus)
- Do a book-signing tour (my friend joined me)
- Go on a cruise (we’ve been on two)
- Be on the Focus on the Family Radio Program (I’ve been on twice.)
- Visit the Holocaust Museum in DC
Things I’m still dreaming about …
- Have one of my novels made into a movie
- Taking all my kids (including the new ones) to Disneyland
- Being invited to be on the Today Show
- Living in the Czech Republic with my family for a year
- Taking a Mediterranean cruise
- Visit New York City
How about you? Do you take time to feed your creativity? Do you take time to feed your dreams?
We’ll all get burnt out if we don’t create, explore, enjoy, hug, laugh, and dream. I guarantee you’ll be more efficient with your writing work when you feed these parts of your soul!
Kim Hall says
May 3, 2013 at 9:02 amThese are all great suggestions, Tricia. I find chatting with friends and family most always provides great jumping off points for posts. Taking a walk with someone else also is always refreshing and seems to release ideas that have been held captive under the large pile of daily to-do’s. 😉
Tricia Goyer says
May 4, 2013 at 2:26 pmI love that, Kim!
Barefoot Hippie Girl says
May 3, 2013 at 11:52 amI find that it is important to be disciplined in writing, but it is also important to leave room for the other things. I feed my soul by reading novels and inspirational books. I feed my soul by talking with friends. Not just online-but live conversations. I feed my soul by spending time reading the Bible and praying. Jesus Christ is living water. He is the Bread of Life. I have to get my sustenance primarily from Him. I feed my soul through looking at beauty-on Pinterest, on artistic blogs, and in nature. I am a thinker, so any opportunity to think or any subject to get me thinking is what feeds my soul.
I loved this post. I love your list of realized dreams and still out there dreams. God is so good!
Tricia Goyer says
May 4, 2013 at 2:26 pmJust this morning I hung out with fellow Teen MOPS leaders and chatted. Even though it was a planning meeting I felt so revitalized when we were done. Adult conversation is needed sometimes! What’s on your “still out there dreams” list?
Barefoot Hippie Girl says
May 5, 2013 at 12:41 pmGoing to Israel and Italy. Building a cabin in the mountains on a stream somewhere. Running a marathon. =)
Jennifer Kostick says
May 3, 2013 at 1:19 pmWow, this is a very inspiring post. I love that you show Christ in your life through your activities and life’s decisions, such as adoptions.
You do a lot, which means you really NEED those cruises! To God be the glory. Thanks for writing and sharing this post:).
Tricia Goyer says
May 4, 2013 at 2:24 pmYes, I’ve learned not to feel guilty for fueling myself because there is so much going out! Thanks!
Kim@onerebelheart says
May 3, 2013 at 2:59 pmI love this post! I really struggle with finding time to do much of anything for myself, and I know that needs to change. This is my year of “less” and I’m slowly but surely paring down both the clutter in our house and the clutter in our lives. You’ve inspired me to put my dreams down on paper so I can see them and hopefully make some of them reality one day.
Tricia Goyer says
May 4, 2013 at 2:23 pmYes, write them down. It really makes a difference. The first step to having our dreams fulfilled is writing them down.
kim says
May 3, 2013 at 8:01 pmHi Tricia, i just started blogging and love your inspiration on fueling your soul!
Tricia Goyer says
May 4, 2013 at 2:22 pmYou’re so welcome, Kim!
Mindy Whipple says
May 4, 2013 at 7:15 amIt is encouraging to read that your writing is fueled by visual stimuli among all the others. I am an artist before I found a passion for writing and I still find a need to switch between the two mediums. They seem to play off of each other, to feed into each other. Though sometimes, I have to admit I feeling a bit like a Jekyll & Hyde bouncing between the two! So seeing you, such a prolific writer, doing the same thing makes me feel somewhat normal. Thank you for sharing this.
Tricia Goyer says
May 4, 2013 at 2:22 pmOne of my new favorite things is just looking at Thinkstock photos! The images often fuel my writing ideas. I think God created artists to “fuel ourselves” in many ways! You’re welcome!
Shannon Wheeler says
May 4, 2013 at 5:17 pmThis totally is where I’m at right now. As a SAHM of 3, I’m rediscovering how really important it is to keep my own dreams and interests alive, so I am energized for my family and not as whiny with my husband. (I’m not necessarily perfect at either of these qualities, but I’m working on it!) I’ve been making a point to write more about happiness and fun and “sparkle” on my blog, and it’s really refreshing! http://shannonkwheeler.blogspot.com
Tricia Goyer says
July 28, 2013 at 3:06 pmWriting about it helps so much!
Amy Tilson says
May 4, 2013 at 8:21 pmLove that you still have big dreams that include going to NYC and being on the Today Show, but also include going to Disney with your family. What great suggestions!
Tricia Goyer says
July 28, 2013 at 2:28 pmThank you so much, Amy!
Krista Gilbert says
July 30, 2013 at 1:08 pmI just got back from the She Speaks Conference, and Michael Hyatt dared us to write our goals down. This post is pushing me today to actually do that! Thanks Tricia – you are a bold and beautiful example…..
Tricia Goyer says
September 9, 2014 at 6:51 amSo glad, Krista!