Marlon – “It’s not ok! I promised that I would never let anything happen to him!!!”
Dory – “Hmmm….that’s a funny thing to promise.”
“What do you mean?”
“You can’t never let anything happen to him, because then nothing would ever happen to him.”
We drove home from vacation today and were in the car for 11 hours. For about four of those hours, we allowed our kids to watch movies. “Finding Nemo” was the first choice, and from time to time, I’d catch a few silly one liners. Then I heard the above exchange and it made me stop and think.
And if you really want to pause about it, the conversation between these two little fish happened from inside the belly of a whale.
Hmmm….that seems kinda familiar huh?
Then Jonah prayed to the LORD his God from the belly of the fish, saying,
“I called out to the LORD, out of my distress,
and he answered me;
out of the belly of Sheol I cried,
and you heard my voice.
For you cast me into the deep,
into the heart of the seas,
and the flood surrounded me;
all your waves and your billows
passed over me.
Then I said, ‘I am driven away
from your sight;
yet I shall again look
upon your holy temple.’
The waters closed in over me to take my life;
the deep surrounded me;
weeds were wrapped about my head
at the roots of the mountains.
I went down to the land
whose bars closed upon me forever;
yet you brought up my life from the pit,
O LORD my God.
When my life was fainting away,
I remembered the LORD,
and my prayer came to you,
into your holy temple.
Those who pay regard to vain idols
forsake their hope of steadfast love.
But I with the voice of thanksgiving
will sacrifice to you;
what I have vowed I will pay.
Salvation belongs to the LORD!”
And the LORD spoke to the fish, and it vomited Jonah out upon the dry land.
Then the word of the LORD came to Jonah the second time, saying, “Arise, go to Nineveh, that great city, and call out against it the message that I tell you.” So Jonah arose and went to Nineveh, according to the word of the LORD. (Jonah 2:1–3:3)
“You can’t never let anything happen to him, because then nothing would ever happen to him.”
Sometimes I wonder if we’re so consumed with never having anything bad happen in our lives, that we blame God when bad things happen, or get mad, or just go about our own plans to try and rectify things ourselves… and in the end, we miss the point of the whole shebang, or worse, we miss jumping into opportunities for greater redemption.
Now, I don’t believe that God does bad things to people to teach them a lesson. It’s not in his character to do so. You may disagree with that theology, but I don’t believe he inflicts suffering on his people to “teach us a lesson” or to “make us stronger.” I do believe that he allows things to happen, but that’s different than doing it. Anyhow…massive theological sidebar that I won’t get into now….but no matter where you stand on that, it’s hard to deny that if nothing ever happened to us, then often times, nothing would ever happen to us.
Oftentimes, ministries are birthed from pains. Crusades are born from a desire to see change. Revolutions endeavor to make life different. Revivals happen when people recognize their own need.
Things happen when things happen.
Not that to consider what God might do with our struggles or joys necessarily changes our perspective on them entirely….but really….What might God do with us when “things happen” in our lives? Think of the possibilities?!
Jonah went to Ninevah….AFTER he spent time in the belly of a whale. And while I’m sure Jonah probably wouldn’t choose to have a re-do of that experience, his second chance at Ninevah saved the entire land. The people repented and God relented.
Things happen….when things happen.
Doesn’t it make you wonder what our great God will do with each of our “things?”
But they do not know
the thoughts of the LORD;
they do not understand his plan,
that he has gathered them as sheaves to the threshing floor.
Arise and thresh,
O daughter of Zion,
for I will make your horn iron,
and I will make your hoofs bronze;
you shall beat in pieces many peoples;
and shall devote their gain to the LORD,
their wealth to the Lord of the whole earth. (Mic 4:12–13)
I love what this commentary had to say about this…
“And thus it is here; the nations are gathered against Zion, as soldiers into the field, but God gathers them as sheaves into the floor, to be beaten to pieces; and they could not have been so easily, so effectually, destroyed, if they had not gathered together against Zion. Note, The designs of enemies for the ruin of the church often prove ruining to themselves; and thereby they prepare themselves for destruction and put themselves in the way of it; they are snared in the work of their own hands.” **
*Would love to hear your thoughts on that below! I love that the Lord gathers for good, what the enemy intends to gather for evil. How do you feel about the idea that if nothing ever happened, then nothing would ever happen? Whatcha thinking? Do tell….
Photo Credit – from Disney’s Finding Nemo
** Henry, M. (1994). Matthew Henry’s commentary on the whole Bible: Complete and unabridged in one volume (Mic 4:8–13). Peabody: Hendrickson.
Anonymous says
July 16, 2012 at 7:18 amLogan, this is such a great word today. It’s so easy to fret over the “things” happening in our lives that we find uncomfortable and challenging, but it is precisely in these hard moments that God’s goodness and glory can be found, where allow ourselves to walk in obedience through the hard seasons, trusting that He will use it all for His ultimate good and glory. Wishing the hard days away, wishing for nothing to happen would mean that we never see the growth and fruit of Gods preseance in our lives. Makes me think of this verse: In the season of rain, pray for rain Zachariah 10:1 instead of wishing for nothing to happen, may we learn to pray for more–
I really loved this, thank you!!
Logan Wolfram says
July 16, 2012 at 7:22 amThank you! It was a word I needed to hear as well! Love when the Lord gives us nuggets for our own lives that are worth sharing!
C Orick says
July 16, 2012 at 9:40 amI’ve learned over the years with my kids that God uses those evil things that come into our lives for good. He never wastes a moment to teach us, to grow us, and to minister to others. Because of a very unwise choice I made as a young adult God revealed to me the true character of my future husband I was dating at the time. We have been married for six years now and because of his gracious forgiveness of my past mistakes I know he is truly the man God hand-picked just for me. If nothing had ever happened to me, then my life would not be the beautiful yet battered tapestry it is today. I can be an example to young women and my two daughters because of the troubles God has brought me through. Thank you for reminding me to “be joyful always; pray continually; and give thanks in ALL circumstances; for this is God’s will for [ me] in Jesus Christ.” 1 Thess 5:16, my life verse and a rock for me through those things that always happen, good or bad.
Logan Wolfram says
July 16, 2012 at 1:39 pmI love that verse in Thessalonians! Thanks for sharing and love how the Lord is using you for ministry now brought forth from your past.
Lisa Hamer says
July 16, 2012 at 11:10 amI agree with your thought that God allows things to happen. In return, we learn and grow and, I believe, progress toward him and hopeful become more like him. Through experience we learn compassion, empathy, courage, patience, love – all Godly character and traits. I’ve been one to say that I like my life calm and without drama. But I can see much to be learned from those experiences. Still doesn’t mean I like them when I’m in them, but am open to seeing the growth from the other side of the trial.
Logan Wolfram says
July 16, 2012 at 1:37 pmAmen to all of that Lisa!
Melanie Poole Gillgrist says
July 16, 2012 at 10:02 pmThere’s a lot of wisdom in Nemo! Although I’ve experienced so much richness in those times of letting God form me through trials…..I can so easily revert back to hanging on to the whale’s tongue like Marlon. Thank you for the reminder of greater redemption and that things do happen when we let things happen.